Family Systems Engineering
Family Systems Engineering[edit]
Family Systems Engineering is an approach to family life, personal transformation and nation building that was created by Praise Oladimeji Fowowe in Nigeria in 2015 after 16 years of working with various families and studying models of why some families fail and while others work, and how this affects the development of any society. The study is based on the premise that the most important nation on earth is the family because the family is the production factory of the society. It takes a look into the relationship between how a family can "engineer" an individual and how this either empowers or sabotages their marriage or their impact in the society.
It classifies families into developed, developing and undeveloped, and how a marriage between products of two different classes of families can become chaotic without a recognition of the engineering system of their previous system and who they must become to create a desired family.
Family Systems Engineering defines marriage as the coming together of a man and a woman from two existing nations to form a new nation whose culture will give the world rest and promote the best interest of all.
The promoters of Family System Engineering have created interventions that analyses people’s family life issues using diagnostic tools such as personality assessment, national engineering checks, love language assessments (originally made popular by Gary Chapman) and marital assessments to elicit the challenges couples face and use the Family Systems Engineering model to create intervention that is believed can help reduce divorce rate as well as global terrorism.
It sees a family through the screen of governmental systems and seeks to find the best form of system that can support the desires of every family and how an unemotional system can deliver the bliss they seek if well followed.
History and Conception[edit]
Family Systems Engineering is the study of the variables that could be responsible for the state of the world, how it can alter the systems that influence human behavior from the family, and the infusion of a new code that automatically creates a predetermined future (restoration of love and peace in the society).
The study is a thought process that takes a look into how the structure, frames and system of families affect the products of the family, and how their deployment into the society ultimately affects the quality of the society.
The study examines how developed families can create a developed society, how underdeveloped families can become a threat to the world, and how an intentional system can produce quality individuals who can create a quality world.
It presupposes the family as the most important nation on earth.[2] This study postulates that everyone is a product of a family system (upbringing, community, experience); the system is what sustains the purity or the pollution of the world. If the right systems that focus on the best interest of all are deployed, it may witness a world of genius where the strong assists the weak and humanity becomes the way of life for everyone.
Main Components and Core Concepts[edit]
Family systems Engineering can be understood in terms of four broad components and the central concepts pertaining to those:
Conditioning[edit]
It says that people are being conditioned consciously or unconsciously and that if evil can be conditioned it means there is a strong possibility that good can be conditioned if we pay attention and are intentional with the way we run our families and raise children. The thought process takes a look into systems that is intentional and duplicable. For example it says there is a structure to getting angry and falling out of love and if those structures can be elicited and understood people can get rid of self sabotaging behavior. It says how people are engineered can either empower or disempower them. Family systems engineering takes a look into the engineering of the human mind, the style of government each family runs and how it affects everything the man becomes including his society.
Governance[edit]
It seeks to understand the style of government that best serves families based on their pre-determined desires. It posited that often times what upsets the peace of couples is the attachment to the systems of government that raised them. For example Africa is mostly pseudo democracy that is actually autocratic and the study says no one is permitted to be above a pre-determined system of government or else there would be inequality. The study believes we must co-create a system of government that serves the best interest of every citizen of the family. So it sees a family that runs like a nation with a clear vision, values, culture, ethos and constitution
Peace[edit]
The trust of this study is on how we can eliminate the walls that separates humanity and how we can come together to promote our best interest. The study says we are all threatened by same enemies so why do we pretend as if some are more immune to evil than others. It uses a lot of etymology to elicit the real meaning of several words whose original meaning has been lost to time and it says we must all come together to accept ourselves as man made in God’s image and be kind to one another even if we have different beliefs about different areas. The creators of the future are those who can take hold of the systems that govern human behavior and effectively deploy it for the good of humanity.
Techniques or Set of Practices[edit]
According to Praise Fowowe Family systems Engineering can be understood once the codes that can promote the general wellbeing of the family is understood. It seeks to promote a team based marital system where everyone works for the common good of all and it has a technique that is used to elicit the formation that different families play and how to create what is called a dream team. But it also has a practice whereby every family is expected to build certain systems that supports and promotes their overall well being.
Applications[edit]
Family systems Engineering has helped several couples overcome the need for divorce as it brings clarity to the real issues and charts the way forward. It is also being embraced as a standard pre-marital template by singles in a number of African nations. It helps people see the real problem and take responsibility for their lives as against trading blames.
It has also been adopted by a number of religious organizations as a standard template for marital preparatory class.
Associations, Certification, and Practitioner Standards[edit]
Family Systems Engineering Certification is a major certification program by Institute of Family Systems Engineering Development.
See also[edit]
• Jerome Onipede
Notable Practitioners[edit]
• Chidinma and Nedun Nwobi
• Olumide Olugbenle
• Amos Fenwa
• Bridget Elesin
• Zuriel Olowe
• Dr. & Dr Mrs Olaore
• Modupe Ehinirn
• Labi Olayori
• Ayo Bankole
• Matthew Adedoyin
• Aanu Sadare
• Pamela Evbota
• Dayo Samuel
References[edit]
- Jump Up - Bandler, Richard; John (1975). The Structure of Magic I: A Book about Language and Therapy. Science and Behavior Books Inc. pp. 5–6. ISBN 0-8314-0044-7.[1]
- Undressing Sex - Praise Fowowe
- Marital Formation - Praise Fowowe
- Strictly for Parents - Praise Fowowe
- The Principle of Fatherhood - Dr. Myles Munroe
- 5 Love Languages - Garry Chapman
- Emotions of Normal People - William Moulton Marston ISBN 978-1406701166
- Purpose and Power of Love and Marriage - Myles Munroe
- Awaken the Giant Within You – Anthony Robbins
- The Ultimate Nation – Praise Fowowe (unpublished)
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- ↑ Bandler, Richard (1975). Jump Up. United States: Science and Behavior Books Inc. pp. 5–6. ISBN 0-8314-0044-7. Search this book on
